"One of the happiest moments in life is when you finally find the courage to let go of what you cannot change" -Unknown.
In life letting go is a hard obstacle to face because it's hard to let go when you've been holding on for something so long. I've struggled my whole life with the concept of letting go of certain situations, trust me I've struggled with moving on with my past, ridding myself of grief, guilt and shame. I've struggled with freeing myself from worries and mistakes, past relationships and etc. It was very hard to let go of my past because of the damage it had caused me emotionally and physically and knowing I will never be the same again is the most pain I've ever felt it was like I was unable to release my grip, I always thought that holding on was worth the pain but I had to learn to accept changes, accept what is and let go of what was! later I realized accepting new opportunities wasn't bad after all doors opened up for greatness, and gave me the opportunity to love myself unconditionally no matter what. As well as accepting new friendships, I had to learn "friends" only come around when it was beneficial to them, they didn't support you they support what you did for THEM! I had to learn to let go of a lot of friends I had to change my environment of friends and start surrounding myself with positive energy and good vibes and not even just friends, relationships as well with family it was too many bad vibes I myself decided to change for the better because changing for the worst wasn't me and I refused for it to be me. I had to re evaluate and understand i had to take a "minor step back for a major come back." It was very hard for me to let everyone go whether it was friends, family or relationships even if they did me foul. I loved them or at least i thought i loved them but the truth was I have an amazing heart I never cared how dirty you did me I still stood around but I realized people will take advantage of you, I then couldn't set myself up for failure anymore it was time for a change and that's when i decided today will not be a repeat of yesterday its time for a change! Eventually i was okay with letting people go and moving on I began to start opening up more, becoming more positive, meeting new people, getting to know myself spiritually and God was opening plenty of doors for me.
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Anonymous nigga
9/22/2017 11:33:41 pm
Talk about some situations you over came
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Anonymous
9/23/2017 09:29:44 am
I'll be talking about situations I overcame as I write :)
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Lil sis
9/23/2017 07:42:40 am
💯😚 yasss
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Caiya
9/23/2017 09:44:38 am
Thank you!
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Cay ?
9/23/2017 09:18:10 am
You’re very inspirational 💘babygirl keep up the good work I love your writing so much ♥️
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Anonymous
9/23/2017 09:29:05 am
Thank you so much for the kind words and motivation!
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Kyra
9/23/2017 09:20:05 am
I like this , an its very inspirational 😭💜
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Anonymous
9/23/2017 09:28:43 am
Thank you so much! ?
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TLP Kids Corporation
9/23/2017 01:17:28 pm
How amazing you are!! Exceptional way to turn lemons into lemonade!! We'll talk about the errors but for now, let's focus on the relief. Major comeback and I am excited!!! Proud Mommy moment 👑🙏💪♥♥♥
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Caiya
9/23/2017 01:40:09 pm
Thank you so much! I love you mom.
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kayla❤️
9/23/2017 05:02:38 pm
❤️❤️❤️❤️ i love it . you are so amazing 😊
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Caiya
9/24/2017 07:54:01 am
Thank you so very much! Xoxo
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Torie
9/24/2017 06:15:35 am
I love you this is so great your annoying 💙
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Caiya
9/24/2017 07:54:29 am
Thank you so much! You are appreciated :)
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Jabria
9/24/2017 07:18:12 am
I can definitely relate and I love how you worded the scenarios that you've encountered.💕
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Fay ♥️
9/24/2017 08:24:51 am
I loved it all 🤘🏾😊♥️
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Caiya
9/24/2017 09:06:24 am
Thanks darling :)
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Aaliyah
9/24/2017 04:15:25 pm
I love it you should keep doing this
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Caiya
9/24/2017 05:43:56 pm
Thanks! Im glad you enjoyed it.. I am going to keep writing lol!
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Kyonna
9/24/2017 08:54:30 pm
So Proud Of You I Couldnt Even Believe You Wrote This After Reading This I Loves It Im So Proud Of You💕
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Caiya
9/24/2017 09:06:13 pm
THANK YOU SO MUCH ILY! I'm Glad you enjoyed reading this, that warmed my heart!
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