"Until you get comfortable with being alone you'll never know if your choosing someone out of love or loneliness" -Mandy Hale
Most people feel like there obligated to deal with a person out of their loneliness and wants that individual to fulfill their comfort of happiness or they choose that person out of love. Don't be that person who depends on someone for your "happiness", that's not happiness nor love. When we're lonely we tend to fall for anything we're hoping what ever person walks into our lives are everything. When we're lonely we become vulnerable or gullible, we feel like we need someone else to step in to pick us up but let me tell you that is false. I used to deal with people out of the fact I used to hate being alone I craved having someone's presence whether it was one person or multiple people I was lonely and my only comfort was dealing with multiple people it was almost like a set up at life because during that while I was only loosing myself. I became depend on having people as my happiness later realizing its good to be a introvert you don't need to choose some one out of loneliness to be your own comfort. Being lonely is important its where we find our strength and self worth its important to know how to pick yourself up when you are falling. I started focusing on the things that were important to me now I'm more content with being alone with myself.
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xeorxii
3/15/2019 10:29:18 pm
How woke and how vibrant your soul is , is amazing 💛. Keep writing
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